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Ladies,
Good evening ladies I’m sorry to disturb you on a Wednesday evening but this a subject that was on my heart to attack and I wanted to get it out. Ladies here is the deal and ive heard this personally, in other people relationships, and even just an average conversation. However since no one wants to attack this subject I guess I will and put this thing in focus for you guys. Your probably wondering what I’m talking about right? Well it’s the phrase ladies you like to use towards your mate which goes,” Your not my daddy!” Some of you may have said it in another way but essentially the message is the same. Well ladies understand something for a real man who is really true to you the requirement for the way he should love you is very high. Now first you need to make sure you have the right kind of man who is walking what he talks. Below I listed the biblical requirements of how a man should love you and what he should be willing to do.
Ephesians 5:25-27 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her; 26 that He might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, 27 that He might present to Himself the church in all her glory, having no spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that she should be holy and blameless.
"(Ephesians 5:28-33) You care for your body daily to be as well fed and healthy as possible. You quickly take care of any needs or desires. Any sexual desire as a husband should be cared for with your wife. In the same way, care for your wife's needs and well being. Feel your wife's pain and illness and rejoice in her health as if it were your own life. A husband must see his wife's sexual desires and make supreme efforts to meet those needs too. Basically, her need or desire whether financial, physical, emotional or spiritual in your relationship must receive your full effort. Only in this way can you love her and provide for her just as well as you do for yourself.
Now that you know the requirements let me help you understand even further. When a man loves you ladies then he has a genuine concern for your well being from you flesh to your spirit. He wants the best for you and because of the love he has for you then he will offer you the gifts of inspiration, preparation, protection, consolation, and he will always have your best interest in mind as well as the relationship. This means ladies that when he tells you something then its not always him being controlling but just trying to look out for you and put you on what is going on around you and the relationship. If I’m required to give my life for you and give my all to you then don’t you understand I’m going to protect my investment of time and energy that I put into you?! Ladies love is an action and it makes you do something and if its real then you’ll be wrapped up in it at all times. No one is trying to raise anybody whose already an adult but we as men will try to get our woman’s perception in focus not because he is trying to be controlling but for the best interest you and the relationship. Which would you rather have someone who may say they love you but actions say other wise tell you something or someone you know without a shadow of doubt is unconditionally in love with you tell you something??? Umm yea I hope you chose the second one by far. Ladies think about this thing when you were a child did your father not tell you things that would help you advance in life? Yes im sure he did and you probably listened. Well he just didnt tell you things just because he was your father but it was because you needed to know the game. Well when your in a good relationship its no different the man will assume his role if he is a man and do that very same thing but you must understand what it is he’s doing. Love can be as simple as you want it to be or as hard as you make it to be but you must have you perception of things in line to understand. As a man there is nothing a good man would love more then to have a woman understand this concept and be able to realize what it is so that she doesn’t reject it. If you have a good man and he’s doing the things he should then be a reflection of him.
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I really like this message im sure it hit home for a lot of people.
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