Good
Morning,
One
of the popular things I see via facebook that needs to be exposed with truth is
some woman taking pride in being the “Side Chick”. Many have allowed this type
of lifestyle to misguide them for the sake materialism and etc. I’ve even seen
many times the nerve to brag about it as if it was something to be proud of in
their lives. Well let me expose you to the truth of it and the levels of God.
Truth is this is a total lack of self-respect, self-esteem, greed, and totally
being blind. Let’s examine the definition of the word mistress from a biblical
and worldly standpoint. Mistress in the biblical sense was referred to
as a woman that has power, authority, head of a household, and/or employs
servants. Mistress in the world can be defined as a woman continuing
extramarital sexual relationship with one man in return for an exclusive and
continuing liaison, providing her with financial support. The first definition
is something to be proud of because usually this referred to women whom were
married and carried that authority within their household. If you read the
story of Abraham (Abram) and Sarah (Sarai) you will notice the word mistress
was used in reference to Sarai whom was the wife of Abram. Somehow the enemy
has made this word acceptable in the form of the second meaning in today’s
society. This is dangerous act to be a willing participant in this behavior.
This brings so much bad karma into your life. For example Sarah despised Hagar
when she found out that Hagar was with child for Abraham. However because of
this act the child would be labeled as a wild man and though he was the son of
Abraham it wasn’t until Issac (child of promise) was born that promise from God
would be fulfilled. Ladies often your decision will affect your child and I’m
sure you wouldn’t want your child to be an outsider so to speak because your
actions? Let’s examine this thing from the point of a self-esteem perspective
now. I don’t know a woman alive who
doesn’t want to be valued especially by her man. The fact that a woman can be
so emotional less for material gain or whatever she gets out of the deal is
heartbreaking. Your self-esteem has to be low even though you may not admit it
in order to allow yourself to be used like that. In Proverbs 31:10-31 a virtuous
woman is worth more than rubies and it continues to explain the ways of this
woman. Virtuous means to conform to moral and ethical principles. This kind of
woman is praised by her husband and is even more deserving of this praise
because of her fear for the Lord. When you live this kind of life and value
yourself this much then being someone’s mistress isn’t something to be proud of
or even want for yourself as a woman. You must learn to identify the works of
your flesh as stated in Matthew 5:19 and therefore being this is of the flesh
it can’t be pleasing to God (see Romans8:8). If this act isn’t pleasing to God,
then how can it be beneficial to you? Oh I get it you’re probably saying you
get the things you want with no strings attached? Well what if some form of std
is attached to you then what? In materialism at its best still does you no good
because at some point you and this earth shall pass so this will not benefit
your life or soul (see Mark 8:36). Ladies I say to you value yourself, your
body, and want more out of life then materialism and someone’s temporary time.
Love yourself enough to want and receive the best that God has promised you in
this life. The word of God says a man who finds a wife finds a treasure and he
receives favor from the Lord (Proverbs 18:22). Don’t be in the wrong place and
involved as a “Side Chick” that you miss your rib to be the “Valued Praised
Worthy Wife”. Thank God for his grace and mercy when we are making mistakes in
our lives but we must correct them when we come into knowledge.
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We have a responsibility to our women to help them understand their value.
Women you have a responsibility to stop promoting this foolishness of the “Side
Chick” to our young women coming up.
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