Tuesday, May 22, 2012

Idolized or Jeopardized


Idolized or Jeopardized



Good Evening Fellows,



Fellows do you ever just look out in the world as you ride in you car to your destination? Do you notice the same scenery among our youth and young men? What I’m saying is why is it that we idolized such negative images into the minds of our young men? We have totally lost them in this world today because all they want to be is the next gangster or popular d-boy. I’m sorry if that last sentence offended some but the truth is the truth so I have to keep it real with you. One of the most disturbing things I’ve noticed is the superior athletes that aren’t even in school or just wasted talent because we as men aren’t guiding them properly. Its one thing to be that kind of athlete but we also have to be in their ear about grades, behavior, and attitudes. We have become so detached from what we should be doing and submissive to what t.v says we are in this society. No one is taking the time to tell these young men and even some older men how they are jeopardizing their future, talent, and lives. I’ve never seen a time in life where you can’t separate what seems to be the right path from the wrong path. So many of us are only concerned with fitting in and being accepted that we actually rob ourselves or defer the blessings of what our lives could be if we took the proper road or listened to someone who may have been trying to shed wisdom into our lives to guide us to the proper path. Yes I do understand every man has to be his own man but don’t get it twisted the principles of manhood remain the same. We have to begin to shift the mindset of our generation and engage in the future identity of the generation to come. Let’s stop the process of idolization followed by jeopardizing the future but instead touch the lives of our men with rejuvenation and education for the purpose of a positive generation.



Quote: "Look at yourselves. Some of you teenagers, students. How do you think I feel and I belong to a generation ahead of you - how do you think I feel to have to tell you, 'We, my generation, sat around like a knot on a wall while the whole world was fighting for its human rights - and you've got to be born into a society where you still have that same fight.' What did we do, who preceded you ? I'll tell you what we did. Nothing. And don't you make the same mistake we made...." ~Malcom X




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Stats


Stats



Good Evening Ladies,



It’s my pleasure to speak with you ladies again this week. I hope all your mothers had a terrific mother’s day and received the appreciation you all deserved. I apologize for the late release but I wanted to allow you all to enjoy mother’s day without a message from me. This week I wanted to touch on the topic of what I like to call stats. Im sure you ladies have heard men and sports broadcaster give an athletes stats such as 25.0 ppg(points per game) 5.0 apg(assist per game) right? Well what I have noticed ladies through facebook, twitter, conversations, and etc is that a lot of you say all these things you want from a man but yet your stats aren’t where they need to be. You’re looking for someone to put up stats for you as you drift through life and the relationship. Tonight I want to bring something to your attention and help you realize that you should put up your own stats just as well as you require them. If you want a successful man with good credentials who will treat you right then you have to be either striving to or already putting up those same stats. I have consistently told you ladies about putting criteria on the man you seek but in the same breath you have to give him something to work with as well. A ship will never sink if the weight is equal at both ends. Truth is your success will inspire him and his success should inspire you as well. Ladies your family, relationship and household should be something solid and a situation that is mirrored in a sense. I’m not saying everything will be the exact same but you want to carry your weight as well and be able to add to the relationship in every aspect of it from emotionally to finances. Its all about teamwork and you can accomplish a lot more by working with someone instead of subtracting from someone or your relationship. I’m not bailing the fellows out and I’m not saying find a man to take care of because I’m totally against that but find someone who can be there for you on that same type of level. We need more powerful women with purpose and the stats to show it. We don’t need any more of our women trying to be what they see on tv and in the movies but instead we need more strong women. Ladies when you have yourself together then any kind of man can’t and won’t approach you because the will know you are all business. We need our successful women to train our up and coming women so they can handle things properly and be elevated in life. I’m asking you ladies this evening to find yourself, find your purpose, become committed, and move forward on that.



Quote: “I want to grow. I want to be better. You Grow. We all grow. We're made to grow.You either evolve or you disappear. ” ~Tupac Shakur




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