Ladies,
This week I want to give you women some food for thought from a man’s prospective and I hope that you can digest it. Ladies I know we have a lot to do with the state of our women because of how we treat you guys but I have to be real with you it’s not all us. Ladies you have to learn to respect yourself more and not only that but have a standard to hold these guys to. It’s so crazy to see a woman who has the mindset of a man. I when I say a mindset of a man I men trying to get whatever that can out of a man and even willing to let a man place a price tag on you. I absolutely don’t understand why so many of you choose to take care of grown men and accept so many negative things from them. Ladies please start respecting yourself and you royalty as queen of the earth more than what you are doing in today’s society. Under no condition should you allow a man to belittle you, disrespect you, beat you, or even make you feel as if your some kind of option in there life. I totally admire the independent thing but that goes as far as providing for yourself and being able to handle business. Ladies you can’t continue to play this game of using men because it’s too dangerous and your worth is so much more than that. Would you rather just be the chick they see from time to time or would you rather be the amazing wife who builds a life and legacy with the men in your life. Ladies until you change the way you allow men to approach you and your view of them and their purpose in your life then things will never change. Make sure you know exactly what it takes for a man to be a man. Im going to let you in a secret the first trait lies in his ability to take responsibility for his actions and that he isn’t concerned about being a man the world’s way but in the way in which god designed him to be. Ladies you don’t have to dress less to impress a man let your demeanor and vibe capture his attention. Show your worth and that you aren’t willing to settle for less. Do you guys realize how a man is told to love a woman and what he must be willing to do to prove that? What man will be willing to do that for someone who doesn’t show value in herself. Ladies make sure you got your morals in tact and be confident in who you are not your looks or body figure. Be a woman of substance that can stand by her man and not just look good by his side. A man needs both things from our woman. It’s a great thing to see a woman stand by her mans side even when he may be at a low moment in his life but even then motivate him and not be his crutch. Ladies you have to be an example for younger women as well as you daughters. Don’t spread yourself among different men because truth is there is so much behind the scene things that happen spiritually when you do. Value your body and your life more then that. It bothers me to see so many women get hurt and can’t even accept a good man in their life because they are so used to the imposters of what a man is. Ladies different is good and a man that has purpose and can hold a conversation that is up to par doesn’t mean he is boring or anything. What it does mean is that this individual knows who he is and what he wants out of life. You guys have to learn how to accept that and expect that out of men instead of all the other stuff you chose to deal with from a man. Ladies get away from the superficial things and the get it how you live attitude and being women of power and purpose.
Go out be successful in life and hold your own but be that woman who has an undeniable presence and so much value that one must elevate his game if it isn’t up to par because you will and shouldn’t settle for less. Make sure you are what you looking for and requiring.
Quote: I love to see a young girl go out and grab the world by the lapel. Life is hard. You’ve got to go out and kick butt.
Maya Angelou
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