“I Love You”

“I Love You”

Good evening,

I posted a quote last week on facebook just a thought that came out of nowhere but here is what was said, “People have tainted the phrase "I Love You" so much that something that was of purity that a human can do has now become a routine thing to say. Educate yourself on love, what it does, what it feels like, and the act of it. Most importantly learn it form a biblical standard. ~d.taylor” This quote receive so many likes that I felt compelled to elaborate on why I said this very thing. Many of us have the routine type of speech when we meet someone and all is going well and it becomes I love you because he or she may be doing this or that. It seems many of us say it because he or she may have a certain level of materialism in which he or she may share with us. Then there is that woman or man who has this image that he or she may love. Let me slice this bread down the middle for you guys real quick. Love isnt something that is one of these simple things. Love is an action but it comes with an ultimate insight and sacrifice. Love is that one thing that you as a human can truly do and be real but many of us have become grammy nominated actors at love. Many of us say I love you and arent even willing to do the simplest thing to express or show that love. Question if you love someone wouldn’t you know the smallest things that mean the most to them? Question wouldn’t you also be willing to do those simple things? The truth is most of us that say I love you cant answer yes to those very simple questions. Here is a breakdown of the word love and I hope you carry it with you and it isnt my opinion but something from a biblical standard. Love at its greatest is the love that God laid down his life for you. So with that being said it was commanded that man love is woman like god loved the church. Meaning ladies a man should be willing to give his life for you, he should be committed to the relationship, faithful to you, supply you with spiritual and physical enlightment, and most importantly offer you protection, respect, honor, truth, and a life that is pleasing to elevate both of you as well as a potential family. Now on the flip side ladies you have your role to and that’s to be that backbone of that man and the home. To support, encourage(each other), to care for the home, and to provide the some of the very same things your man gives you (proverbs ).  See many of our women are approaching relationships with the attitude of what can I get out of him or how can he benefit me but theres no love wrapped around that ladies and if that’s what you are trying to build a life with someone on then you definetely wont make it for in any relationship. Fellows unless you are willing to give the things to a woman I mentioned above just to name a few then where is the love when you say I love you. Truthfully we have to begin to give what we are receiving, teach love my demonstrating it, and hold an accountability measuring stick to the standards of real love. The first time something doesn’t go your way or something isnt said to your liking then you love suddenly changes then it probably wasn’t real from the start. If you can stop loving someone at the drop of a hat then trust me your werent in love you just loved a mirage of something about that person or something they were doing just being real. Lets do better and get it together!!

Quote: People have tainted the phrase "I Love You" so much that something that was of purity that a human can do has now become a routine thing to say. Educate yourself on love, what it does, what it feels like, and the act of it. Most importantly learn it form a biblical standard. ~d.taylor

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Social Networking or Social Exposure

Social Networking or Social Exposure

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This message just dawned on me out of the blue to write so I just sit down and begin to write freely. This past week we discussed the impact of social networking in our society today but also the questioned was posed if it would be beneficial in the work place. There are millions of people on social networking sites all over the world however social networking can expose you if it is used wrong. Yes I know it’s your own personal site and you can say whatever you please and this is very true. Have you ever taken the time to sit down and realize how many people have access to these sites? From the things you say and the pictures you post are things that reflect back to you. Who is the same that the job interview you went on today is going to look you up on facebook? Who’s to say the next major referral in your life that could be key to your success may come from twitter? So you have to beware of what image that you are putting out there of yourself. One of the most important things I do believe is overlooked is that fact of the amount of kids on these sites as well. Some of which who make look up to you , follow you, and etc so the very thing you are doing or saying maybe influencing some young mind in either a negative or positive way. The bible says, “so my word that goes out of my mouth: It will not return empty, but will accomplish what I desire and achieve the purpose for which I sent it (Isaiah 55:11).” Also the sites are public sites and there is way to much time spending arguing, fighting, and etc in front of hundreds of people and all done for what? Your business should be your privacy if you have an issue with some then that issue should be handled between you and that individual instead of you, that person, and facebook(twitter) Matthew 18:15 “If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone.” Come we have to be more responsible then that and more aware of those who may be watching. Don’t allow social media to give you so much power that you forget where you stand and how to handle things properly.

Quote: It’s all about maturity and the ability to be aware of the truth. The truth is that many people watch and listen whether you know it or now. Its just human nature. Make sure you wise in the way you want to be perceived. ~d.taylor

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Reincarnation

Reincarnation

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I’m going to need for you to put your deep thinking hats on tonight and follow me as I give you something that was given to me from personal standpoint. We all at some point will face the inevitable which is death. However I wanted to share another perspective for you in the sense of reincarnation. What I mean is in this life we all go through stuff and at the moment we go through it our mind is so caught up in the moment and totally lose ourselves. We get done to that point of what seems like is no return but what we fail to realize is those are the moments in which we die in order to be reincarnated. God knows exactly what he is doing however we don’t so though it may feel like the worst time in you life it may actually turn out to be the best thing in your life that has happen. In order to get you on your correct path and fulfilling your purpose the old you must die. It has to because that person doesn’t coincide with the purpose and plan of your future. Sometimes that may even mean losing people around you that you may have felt close to. The main objective is to get there. I was bible study one nite and Pastor Jeffery Thrash said, “ Have you ever seen grass grow up through concrete? When God has a purpose for your life nothing can stop it.” This statement is true and it sometimes taking having that temporary moment of hurt and pain to birth a new you. Once you are reincarnated then your mind begins to think differently, your vision becomes clear, your ambition is full of purpose, and your future is now a destiny instead of a hope of happiness. You have to be willing to walk in it and go through it to complete that reincarnation process of who you will become. Many of us go through our trials and tribulations and begin to turn to things that are negative and prevent u from getting there. I encourage you to focus even when times are hard on getting better and getting stronger and leaning towards Gods vision for you life.

Quote: What you thought broke you just may define the new coming of you and lead you to purpose. ~d.taylor

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Moment of Clarity

Moment of Clarity

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As you all know I usually don’t send out my messages until every other Sunday however when I feel something strong on my heart I tend to write it and release it. You know often we will run into situations and just everyday trail and tribulations in our life that will require some clarity. As life evolves and I evolve I can see so many times where God has worked in my life and clearly is protecting for a greater purpose in his plan. I pray daily for understanding, wisdom, clarity, direction but most importantly I pray that God molds me into the man he wants me to be and helps me stay on the course he has prepared for me. My point is we all should pray for clarity everyday and all day if need be. “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways, acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths.”(Proverbs 3:5-6). He constantly lets us know all we have do is ask him and whatever the matter maybe he will bring understanding and clarity to it for you. It’s all about your faith and the way you use it but don’t wait until you get in a situation before you come to him lean on his word every day. Your growth with God is a constant thing that has to be developed but it’s also a commitment you have to make to yourself and Him. This is one of the most powerful verses in my opinion that we should all keep in mind because sometimes things can get a little crazy and we may lose our cool but however his word says  (1 Corinthians 14:33) For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace, as in all churches of the saints. We never know when and what life may through at us but when it comes let’s be prepared. A good friend of mine Christopher “Cash” Washington give me this scripture to study daily and I wanted to share it with you because it reveals so much when you stop and think about how much we are tempted, tested, and tried on a daily basis. Ephesians 6:11-17

¹¹ Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes. ¹² For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. ¹³ Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. ¹⁴ Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, ¹⁵ and with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace. ¹⁶ In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. ¹⁷ Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God. Wow that sounds a mouth full about what is to come and what we should expect. I want to leave you with this thought and that is to remember no matter what the question the answer has already be spoken, not matter when the fork appears in the road the path has already be laid why because it is written in his word.

Quote: God has his hands around me, man it’s so astounding. ~Cash

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Dead Horse

Dead Horse

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I don’t even know where to start on this subject because I feel like I’ve addressed it more then once however it seems to continue to present itself and I guess it’s just an issue we have to continue to address for both ladies and me so ill start with you first ladies.

Ladies listen there are a few things you need to have in order when any man comes to you. Those things are self respect, standards, accountability, and the ability to walk away. So many of you spend time with the wrong guy and you already know his lifestyle isn’t what you like but you still find yourself with him and for what? Then you end up getting yourself in a situation with this person and now you feel trapped. Listen to me ladies if you make demand respect and stand strong on it, that means he can either give it or not. If he chooses not to then let him know to kick rocks and move on with your life. You have to want better for yourself and know that you deserve better in order to receive better. A lot of you allow the worse things from cheating, beating, and etc instead of just saying here is what I desire and be willing to walk away if you can’t receive it. Also on the flip side you can’t demand something that you’re not giving so make sure your end is up to par as well. We all know right from wrong so if you’re in a situation that you are constantly having issues which involves any of the things I just mentioned then you may want to step back. When a man is being a man then he will be responsible like a man. He won’t mind meeting any expectations or standards because he will require the same thing from you as well.

Fellows,

Man we have got to do a better job as men in giving these women something worth having and being real men. However on the flip side we to have to require some things from our women by asking them to respect themselves more. We may also need to go as far letting them know and being honest in what we really want as far as being in a relationship because we know that we aren’t going to just bring any woman home to meet mama. Yes there are some of us that like to play the game if that’s you then its you but don’t waste someone time and energy when you know your just playing I mean hey keep it real. We have to get our women to the next level by doing our part and that involves us having our stuff together and also putting the criteria on them to have theirs together instead of just the next cute face and nice body. After all I would like to think you would want someone who can add to your life and isn’t a burden. Well the only way to get that is to be that and teach it to your daughters, female friends, and look for it in the woman you want because at the end of the day its about standards, accountability, and balance.

Quote: The essence of who we are is often the reflection of our interactions of those we love and care about the most. We always want the best for those closest to us and if you don’t then you may need to reconsider how you feel about that person. ~d.taylor

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Fun

Fun

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This week I have had so many topics to discuss and it was kind of difficult narrowing it down so I’m going to send out the normal two messages and a bonus one as well. We all want to enjoy life to the fullest and every aspect of it however I do think we sometimes get caught up in the word “FUN”. Sometime the activities we engage in and consider fun are often hinders us from some other blessing. See what a lot of us fail to realize is your break through may just be depending on your ability to walk away from something that may not seem negative but it actually is something that hold you in bondage. We get too caught up in the moment or worried about fitting in with friends so we go along or engage in activities that are not essential to getting us to the place in life we want or should be. I went to bible study and the pastor said something that really stuck out to me which was “ Satan doesn’t mind you going to church or hearing the word but he doesn’t want you to receive the breakthrough from it so just when the word is said he tries to shift your mind to something else.” Once I begin to reflect on it I noticed that he is actually right. How many times have you said your going to give up something, someone, or be more positive in your life? Then you turn right around and get caught up with “FUN” and end up deferring your blessing/progression in life. Let me bring this down for you when you grow to the point that you really want a better life for yourself and positivity around you then your “FUN” begins to be found in different things which are productive essential in your forward movement as a man or woman. So take some time and analyze your “FUN” and the”FUN” others bring into your life. “FUN” can mislead you and you’ll find yourself missing out on an area(s) of your life that could have advanced you to the next life of happiness, fulfillment, and personal growth in life.

Quote: As a man or woman once you mature then your kind of fun reflects who you are or who you are becoming.

It’s just something we don’t pay attention to but we should because it is a major factor in your life. ~d.taylor

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Water The Seed

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Normally I address the men and women differently but this week I feel this is a general conversation that applies to both genders. The topic to be discussed this week is “Dreams”. Young boys and girls, men and women, we all have dreams or had dreams at one point in time. However many of us may have set out and accomplish those through determination, hard-work, and a heart to succeed while failure was not an option. On the other hand there are young people who need that spoken word in there lives so that there dreams can be manifested. There are more people out here who hear the negative more then they hear the support of the dreams. We all need to take more responsibility in encouraging and supporting our youth so that we produce more successful men and women. There are several circumstances that may play a part in someone not receiving the proper guidance due to parents, divorcing, single parent homes, and etc. However that doesn’t mean they should go without because we forget how much power God has empowered us with through our tongue. James 3:3-5: “Even so the tongue is a little member and boasts great things. “Proverbs 16:24: “Gracious words are like a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul, and health to the body.” Proverbs 12:14: “A man will be satisfied with good by the fruit of his words.” These are just a few verses that support the point of this message. I was watching the game the other night and watched the story they did on Kevin Durant and his basketball coach/mentor. This man actually spoke Kevin’s nba career way before it ever existed and before he ever believed it. That’s the power we possess and the difference we can make in someones life. Also with that being saying we also have to be straight up and not candy coat things just so someone can digest it better but instead be real because truth is your behavior, decision, influence, friends, and etc will play a role in the evolution of your dream or goal (Proverbs 12:26
A righteous man is cautious in friendship, but the way of the wicked leads them astray). Guidance is necessary in this world we live in but it has to be something that is positive in the way we water the seeds of dreams, life, and visions of our youth and even those who may be older.






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― Whoopi Goldberg






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