Groomed Up
Fellows,
I
know when I write this message I will be rubbing some elbows wrong but I have
to be honest and truthful with you. I chose the titled called groomed up
because it seems like in society today we have forgotten our appearance is a
representation of us. What im referring to is the new trends of the grills and
sagging pants. Then we you are victim of stereotyping then you are made at the
world but yet and still your giving them the ammo. I keep saying this quit
playing the game with the wrong rules and learn the real rules of life. This
very thing just may be one of your stumbling blocks that are preventing your
from the next level in life for yourself. Don’t be so naïve to thing it doesn’t
matter because it makes all the difference in your life and the advancement of
it. Fellows have you ever been in line somewhere and a young man is sagging
with a old person behind him? How does that make you feel? What goes through my
mind is that this individual may have been the very one marching for your
rights and freedom but this generation lacks the respect to uphold themselves
at a higher standard of respect. See this thing to still goes back to
accountable and your ability to see and think on a deeper level. I understand
the whole fashion and trendy look but at the same time why follow somebody else
lead just to fit in with what everyone else is doing instead of being the one
to stick to accountability and standard of dressing like a grown man. Your
image is important regardless of how much you have or how little you have
always take care of yourself and be presentable at all times because fact of
the matter is you never know who may approach you or want to approach you which
may be your chance to shed some light into someone else life. You also never
know who may be watching you from potential employers to just someone who looks
up to you. Ive heard a lot of guys say they don’t want there daughter to bring
this and that home but you have to remember one thing what they see is what
they will go find. You are the first man your daughter will be in love with so
if you give her a lack of love, wrong image, and etc then you cant be mind when
she brings it home to meet you. If your doing the right thing by her then she
will bring the right thing home. Im not saying you have to dress like a square
but I am saying God created you and in his creation there is nothing but
greatness and those are covered in the finest. Stop letting tv and music videos
influence the way you carry yourself and the trends you partake in because
though these things may seem very little in impact they actually say more about
you then your words sometimes. Remember most of what we say is nonverbal with
that being said you better make sure your nonverbally language is on point.
Fellows how much longer are we going to go before we get it right and stop
living second place to the society we live in. We are men and need to start
acting and carrying ourselves as such in all that we do. Lets do it right drop
the grills and pull up the pants and give our women, mothers, and daughters
something to marvel at instead of saying this is sad. You will be remember more
by what you stood for then the foolishness you took part in.
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