Judge Me Not
Good
evening,
Once
again its time for another real talk message and this message isn’t directed
towards any particular gender. The reason I decided to write this message I see
it so much via facebook, twitter, and just people using it on a consistent
basis. It seems the phrase maybe used out of context a little so here is a
little insight for you. The phrase I’m referring to is “Don’t Judge Me” but
lets be clear everything said isn’t always someone judging you but sometimes
there is just truth in the message being delivered to you. Many of us use this
phrase because we don’t want to hear the truth about what we may be doing or
even to justify it in a sense. What you must realize is judging comes into play
when someone is taking a situation or something you said and stamps that
incident to who you are as a person. Now on the flip side someone coming to you
and talking to you about something you did or said because it was a mistake
doesn’t mean they are judging you. However the individual may be taking some
time to share wisdom with you because they believe you are better then the
mistake you made or what you said. Truth is none of us are perfect and we will
make mistakes, but it’s just a growing experience for us. God does place people
in our lives to help guide us and lift us up through conversation, but to get
better you have acknowledge your mistake. This is usually where a lot of us
become defensive and offended because we don’t want to acknowledge it. How can
we say we are looking out for someone if we can’t go to them and offer insight
because we want to see you do better? If you do have people around you
condemning you for something then maybe you need to change your circle and put
people around you who will help you become better and learn from your mistakes.
If you know only God can judge you there is no need to express it because
that’s between you and him. We begin to express things like this because our
feathers get ruffled when we may have heard a slight truth in what was said to
us, but we can’t digest it. Make sure you are honest with yourself because
that’s the only way to be elevated into a higher mindset and a place of divine
understanding. Again this goes back to always feeling like you have to prove
yourself to someone and we you know God there’s no need to because his purpose
and plan doesn’t change for you. Don’t go around using this as a cover up to
uphold your wrong doings just to feel a little peace about yourself or the
situation. Don’t be fooled though of us bring the things said to us because we
are doing everything that lines up with earning that image or judgment as some
of you may call it. So really it’s up to you and how you decide to play your
cards, but make sure that your actions, thoughts, and words represent the right
thing and the right you.
Quote:
Don’t confuse the word judgment with constructive criticism because even when
we don’t believe in ourselves there is always someone else who may realize our
potential. ~d.taylor
Website:
www.iamdrivenforsuccess.com
Phone:
951-262-2512
Twitter:
@dtaylor0362
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